Is it reasonable to ask for written summaries after appointments if I have ADHD?

Yes, it’s entirely reasonable to ask for written summaries after appointments, and it’s often a very appropriate accommodation for adults with ADHD. Forgetting details after complex or emotionally loaded discussions is common, and it reflects working memory and processing limits rather than lack of engagement or responsibility. Clinicians are generally aware that ADHD can make it hard to retain verbal information, especially when appointments involve decisions, medication changes, or multiple recommendations. ADHD includes difficulties with attention, working memory, and follow-through, so needing written reinforcement may support overcoming these struggles. Some clinicians routinely provide brief visit summaries through patient portals, while others may be willing to send a short follow-up message outlining key points, plans, or next steps if asked. It’s also worth knowing that clinicians are not typically expected to write long or detailed notes specifically for patients, and asking for a concise summary of main decisions is more realistic than a full transcript. However, you have the option to have your Fastreat appointments recorded, and you may be able to get a copy of those if you email support@fastreat.com. If a clinician can’t provide summaries consistently, alternatives like bringing a notebook, asking permission to take brief notes, or requesting clarification at the end of the appointment about the top one or two takeaways can also help. Wanting written support isn’t demanding special treatment; it’s asking for information to be delivered in a format that works with your brain. Ultimately, reasonable accommodations are about improving care, not creating inconvenience. Asking for a written summary is a practical, appropriate step toward better follow-through, and most clinicians will see it that way when it’s explained clearly. Typically, we're happy to provide these if you feel you would benefit from it.