My friends say I became boring on meds. Has anyone else had to deal with that?
My friends say I became boring on meds. Has anyone else had to deal with that?
2026-08-27 12:30976 views
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Fastreat Team
Friends calling you boring is a social judgement, not a medical endpoint. ADHD medicines are used to reduce impairing impulsivity and inattention. Less interrupting, less jumping between jokes, and a slower social pace can look like boring to people who knew the unmedicated pattern, and that can be symptom change rather than a new personality. If the change is persistent, distressing, or affecting daily functioning, bring a brief timeline to the prescribing clinician rather than changing the dose independently.
References:
https://www.nhs.uk/medicines/methylphenidate-adults/side-effects-of-methylphenidate-for-adults/
https://www.caddra.ca/wp-content/uploads/Canadian-ADHD-Practice-Guidelines-4.1-January-6-2021.pdf
https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng87/chapter/recommendations
2026-08-28 07:28 750 views
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My friends said I got boring too. I interrupt less and I do not jump into every joke. I think they missed the chaos more than I did. I told the people who matter that I am still me, I am just not performing all the time. When I started to feel blunted, not just quieter, I mentioned that to my prescriber. This is only what I dealt with, not a verdict on anyone else's friends.
2026-08-29 13:50 392 views
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Opposite for me. I felt more present, not less fun, but my old group still wanted the late-night spiral version. I did not argue it into a medical fact. I spent more time with people who liked the calmer pace and I said at clinic that the social comments were getting in my head. They did not treat my friends' opinions as a diagnosis. Personal only, not a plan for anyone else.
2026-09-02 04:32 305 views
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